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This could have been a love story 
30th-Sep-2010 04:40 pm
Leopard White Mage
I saw this over on Twitter courtesy of nikvulper:



It was highly relevant to me because it is directly related to some recent events in my life.

And the advice in the video is too true. If you have feelings for someone, tell them. They might just have similar feelings for you.


In other news, the medication for my feet has helped a little. And I've been hiting my feet with a heating pad several times a day to try and relax the muscles a bit.

Tomorrow I'm driving out to Pittsburgh for Western PA Furry Weekend. I hope to see many folks there.
Comments 
30th-Sep-2010 09:46 pm (UTC)
I usually tell people how I feel, but then they just say "I hate you too!" ;D
30th-Sep-2010 09:48 pm (UTC)

It's still good to have communication. I'll take "open hatred" over "repressed hatred" because the later leads to all sorts of pathological behavior.

Besides, I like to know when I'm not wanted so I can focus my energies elsewhere.
30th-Sep-2010 10:04 pm (UTC)
Well, tell them how you feel, but don't use Facebook because you don't want Mark Zuckerberg to know too.
30th-Sep-2010 10:07 pm (UTC)
That was actually a little painful to watch. :|
30th-Sep-2010 10:11 pm (UTC)
I think many people (including myself) have been scared off by other people who become defensive, offended, or upset when we express our feelings to them. Especially when we were young, many rejections resulted in not wanting to express our feelings for fear of being rejected, and then making further interactions with that person even more awkward.

It's a VERY tough habit to break, and I've been trying hard to break it. Seeing that video really hit home and I like knowing I'm not the only one who has gone through that sort of thing, at least.
1st-Oct-2010 04:22 am (UTC)
I've gotten in that habit and it does seem to work well. expressing interest works better than not expressing it at just about anything.

Especially on the internet. You can't read people as well just by text.
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